Lands end tummy control all the way 10/10
Black Zebra
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Swimsuit that sucks in pooch -
Snacks on the go…Chomps sticks. I’ve been super into honey crisp apples right now. Can bring some little peanut butter packets too. String cheese. Peppers or cucumbers and hummus.
Okay realizing none of these are bars hmm let me think
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For Sale: Pikopye's TownTruly just nosey and want to see the numbers (at least I’m honest?)
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How to get pee out of a mattress??Peed while the mattress cover was being washed from being peed on…..
How do I clean this?Helpppppp before I actually lose my mind.
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Laundry loveTrying to do the low toxic thing so we do branch basics with a scoop of buff city soap detergent bc it makes my laundry smell heavenly which brings me a sliver of joy while folding
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Where should I take my daughter to get ears pierced?@MotherShip I’ve had piercings at both places (cartilage) and would not bring a young child there. I’d probably wait until middle school, although they are the piercing professionals. Just a vibe that could be considered scary to younger kids
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Where should I take my daughter to get ears pierced?We did Claire’s with no issues. I’ve had friends take their girls to Rowan. Pricier and less convenient but likely better
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ADHD resourcesI use Tiles on everything. Keys, my wallet etc
I also have a landing station where all my stuff goes (like a locker for my kids but adult version).
I set timers for a lot of things and give myself reminders on my calendar, maybe a day before.
I like the skylight digital family calendar bc the kids can help keep track of their own activities and what they need.
I also outsource as much as I can (laundry etc) just to keep the mental load lower so I don’t get overwhelmed. Annnnnnd I medicate -
Driving from TX to 30AHas anyone driven from Texas to 30A and have good recommendations on how to break up the drive for kids? Good places to eat, even better if there is a playground at the restaurant etc
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Friends? FOMO?The older I get the higher quality but less friends I have. You can’t be everything to everyone-or shouldn’t want to be.
I do think mom friends are important but you only need a few. Can you overlap with something you’re already doing? Schedule a volunteer time at the school with a friend? Workout together? -
Husbands says I’m not “into” sex enough…My husband recently told me that I’m “not into sex enough”. Honestly this was major news to me as I feel like I’m doing an amazing job by just showing up for him with everything we have going on. Sometimes I’m into it but normally I’m so exhausted I’m like “okay let’s get this done” but again, I’m still showing up…
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Ding dong ditching- okay or bygone eraAgreed good clean fun but also must know the family and know that it’s okay.
I lost my shit on a solicitor who rang my doorbell at 7:15pm. I had been solo parenting while my husband was on work travel. I was working, parenting, getting kids to sleep and had just gotten the baby down. I was seeing red and literally chased them off my porch.
But if it is another family of middle schoolers then game on! -
Thoughts on a TrampolineWe did one for Christmas and it has been the absolute best for our family. The kids play together outside, stay moving etc
I do worry about injuries but that’s part of childhood? Try to mitigate by having a net and some solid rules/boundaries -
Chapter books to read to kids at bedtimeBabysitters club and princess in black series
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ADHD but Not Ready to MedicateIt’s going to take work but it sounds like you’re up for it!
She needs to be set up for success-charts, check lists, reminders, timers, getting on her level when giving instructions, eye contact (not yelling across the house) for any type of directions, reward charts for dopamine
How are her anxiety levels? I might get her evaluated by a LPC for cognitive behavioral therapy.
There are also executive functioning coaches depending on her age.
You can ask her pediatrician or specialist about supplements such as gaba and/or magnesiumBest of luck! It will be her super power one day
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Where do you get ozempic?Ozempic, Mounjaro, wegovy, I don’t really care. I had a coupon last year and it ran out so I’m open to compounding, telehealth whatever! Aiming to not spend a gazillion dollars
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Best go-to easy dinnerIt helps me to have a couple days with a set theme. We always do tacos on Tuesday, pizza on Fridays and my husband grills/smokes something on Sundays. So really I’m just planning Monday, Wednesday, Thursday.
A favorite easy recipe that the entire family enjoys below! Honey mustard chicken
https://www.budgetbytes.com/20-minute-honey-mustard-chicken/?fbclid=IwZXh0bgNhZW0CMTEAAR18hYdWbNqsCC3hzwDRhXLu6VYZSiw93hZ2WbxRuXIGYWeCQHRyYWezAYk_aem_SD6ApH0UyLd3QYAxmOYD5Q -
Managing burnout and talking to your partner about parenting (and other) issuesOne of the hardest parts about parenting for me. Helpful!
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Affordable family ski trip?!Well your first issue is Vail lol
Look at New Mexico (angel fire, Red River) and less expensive places in Colorado.
Short answer is no, I don’t think ski trip and affordable go in the same sentence but there are definitely less expensive areas than Vail. -
Best THC beverage?I order these in bulk if that tells you anything
https://drinkcann.com/