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  • Big sister not taking to newborn

    Hi, my friend just had a baby 2 days ago. Her oldest (21 mos) has been hysterically crying since being introduced to baby brother. Any tips/tricks to help her through the transition? I told her to put more emphasis on her being a 'big sister' and less about the baby.

    Newborns 0 3 164
  • Toddler bedtime advice

    I am desperate for advice. My almost 3yo toddler has suddenly started screaming bloody murder every night when my husband or I try to leave the room. She never was happy for us to leave, but this screaming is next level. When she was newly 2, she had some bedtime tantrums but nothing like this. She has a 3 month old sibling, so I’m guessing part of this is sleep regression related to that. We have a very solid bedtime routine that hasn’t changed (bath, books, songs, bed). We spend so much of each day playing with her and connecting, so the rhetoric of needing connection does not apply here. Have any of you successfully navigated something like this? Or do I just accept that bedtime is going to take hours with screaming until my children are in elementary school? (Plz no!!!)

    Toddlers 0 6 206
  • Homework always ends in tears…it’s so bad

    Any advice on making homework less miserable? One of us always ends in tears. I hated homework when I was in school and I double hate it as a parent. Helppppppp waving my white flag before the semester has even started. My later elementary kid has mild adhd.

    Tweens and Teens 0 4 185
  • Pierced Ears Help

    Any tips on constant infected ears? Thinking it’s from cheap earrings, but hoping for tips on cleaning and healing. Thanks y’all

    Tweens and Teens 0 3 117
  • Looking to cut down on alcohol in 2025.

    Looking to cut down (possibly out) on alcohol in 2025. Any advice or tips/tricks? I feel like there’s a lot out there now for the soberish

    Selfcare 2 10 452
  • Leaving Workforce/ SAHM - advice!

    Hi! Looking for advice and experience of people who have gone through similar situation. I have been working since my kids were born, and my oldest is 8 now. I am having trouble finding the balance and motivation to continue working this high stress (tech start up) job, and miss out on my kids younger ages.

    Anyone have experience giving up their high paying careers for either part time or staying home?

    Scared of the adjustment financially and not having any career at all.

    Balancing Life 3 18 686
  • Sleep training recs in Austin

    Any recommendations for sleep training/sleep experts in the Austin area?

    Sleep 0 4 158
  • Melatonin-free sleep vitamins for kids and teens?

    Does anyone have a magic concoction to help kids and teens to wind down at night? Specifically looking for something without melatonin!

    Sleep 0 10 457
  • Is Mufasa the movie kid appropriate?

    What’s the deal with a lot of “kid movies” not actually being kid appropriate? Is Mufasa okay for young elementary school age or is it too intense?

    Extracurriculars 0 4 304
  • Average amount of sex per week??

    Soooo, what is a “normal” weekly sex life for a couple with two young kids?? Anyone else SO exhausted and can’t find the “perfect” time during the day for sex.

    Moved Solved Marriage and Partnership 4 20 3k
  • Private part talk - 7 year old

    Help! I know this behavior is “normal and curious” but would love help on how to navigate and talk sternly about the subject and actions. My 7 year old son and his girl cousin were touching each others privates. We have had this talk about privates are for no one else but himself, mom/dad and doctors. We also talked to him about how it is NEVER okay to do that. I’m torn between punishing him, because I’m freaked out / having a conversation and navigating it in a productive way. Would love advice!

    Tweens and Teens 0 4 201
  • 7 day stomach bug or flu?!

    We have a horrible 5-7 day bug over here but it’s all stomach / vomiting. It’s like they start to feel better in the morning, but then by 4 pm we are complaining about our stomach and then vomiting by 7. Is this type of flu going around too?!

    Toddlers 0 6 261
  • One of my kids does not listen. Fearful i'm raising a disrespectful kid

    One of my kids does not listen. It's embarrassing and I have no idea what to do. Do I hire a parenting coach? do i put him on adhd medication? I'm worried about the road we're heading down. He's a good kid with kind heart, just will not listen. 8yrs old

    All the Tea 1 5 211
  • Breast lift - where to go in austin?

    I’m considering a lift without implants and I have no idea where to start. Has anyone had good experiences with plastic surgeons in Austin or know of any good places? I’ve just been trying to google search and I would love a recommendation from a fellow mom if anyone knows of some good places. Thanks!!

    Selfcare 0 5 271
  • Tonsillectomy tips- 6 year old

    6 year old getting his tonsils out, please send all the tips!! How can we best prepare for this?!

    Solved Kids 0 7 424
  • Older child dominates younger child

    Is it normal that the first kid influences, shape and maybe even overshadows your second kids? Am I in my head that my oldest has robbed my second of his own baby years and own individuality because he entered a world of chaos with such a dominating brother? Does separating them help to give them their own space to grow and develop?

    Toddlers 0 3 219
  • How to encourage solo play?

    We have one child and they are not big on solo/independent play. Any way we can encourage this more? Mostly just that we need a break sometimes or have chores to do (and yes she can help with these but sometimes it’s so much easier/faster without the help lol).

    Toddlers 0 6 251
  • Papasan Chair??

    Random, but does anyone have a Papasan chair rec??

    Favorite Products 0 2 125
  • Favorite Things White Elephant Ideas

    Idk why but the favorite things white elephant parties give me such anxiety. Like im going to be judged for my favorite thing…so dumb I know. Anyways need ideas! Thank you!!

    Selfcare 1 16 665
  • Almost 9 week old with possible flu - help?

    Waiting to hear from the doctor but we’ve had flu in our house and our nearly 9 week old has a fever and I’m just putting two and two together at this point. Any advice? I know there’s not a lot to do except Tylenol (as directed by doc), and monitor her breathing and hydration/eating/demeanor, and watching her fever generally but…any tips or encouragement welcome!

    Newborns 0 4 199