You can have a clean house, happy kids or a hot wife. Choose 2. There’s no way to do it all.

I also have 4 little kids and I know that my family is harder to host than smaller families. We really only get invited places by a handful of friends and I’ve made peace with that because those are the good true ones! It’s definitely getting easier/more often than when they were tiny. Just keep trying. It’ll all even out eventually. Hang in there mama!