Average amount of sex per week??

[boogieshoes]

Oh wow good for y’all! We are at a 1-2 a month 🫣

[Kbwd4]

Honestly, this thread took away a LOT of shame I had been feeling about not having sex enough. It’s normal to be tired and not feeling it much for a few years when your kids are young! PHEW.

[mamacitarita]

It all depends on what is going on in our life at the moment. Work is stressful and kids aren't sleeping? Maybe once a month. If things are running smoothly in our household and everyone is sleeping then maybe once a week.

[Black Zebra]

Wow, I’m honestly really surprised by these answers. I think it has to do a lot with how many kids you have, how well everyone is sleeping, jobs/stress at work. Ebbs and flows but about once a month right now. We’re just in an exhausting season but we both realize that and connect in different ways too

[MomMomMomMom]

We (mainly me) also struggle with exhaustion come 6pm. We tried something recently that worked well…we hired a babysitter and added time before so she would be at our house while we were getting ready. I had a glass of wine before she came over and went upstairs once she arrived and we were intimate before going on date night. She had the kids in the backyard playing.
Not feasible every time but a good work around when it works!
Came home from date night and passed out we felt more connected during date night too

[Momma T]

Three to four times (that’s rare!)

[Lonestarlittles]

1/2 times a week right now. All depends on what life is throwing at us. #4kids

[Blue Horse]

Honestly we’re at like 2 times a month the mom burn out is real

[chaos_central]

1-2 on a non exhausted week and not a lot of chaos going on.

[Blue Bird]

We have sex 6 times a week

[Pink Drink]

1x a week! But a really amazing 1x a week

[lcastaldini]

1-2 times…

[beatbot2]

Sometimes it’s 2x a week… and other times it’s 2x a month. Life can be chaos

[ShelbyKay13]

Once a week on a good month.

[Mommy-long-legs]

@Lonestarlittles this made me LOL . I can relate .